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Saturday, February 21, 2009

The Perfect Valintine!

Ok, it has been over 10 years now that Teresa and I have been together, and I would have to say this was the best Valintine yet!!! In the past, I made the mistake of getting to comfortable in our marriage, and didn't try enough to show my love to Teresa, but after almost losing her for good this past summer, I realize that I need to Cherish the Love we Have! (just stole that line from Kool and the Gang song, Cherish, which I just happen to be listening to now, LOL).
Seriously, I was in a major funk for a long time when it came to our marriage, and it's funny how something so bad could turn into something so good! Now, I've learned to let Teresa know every day how much she means to me, and I find my love for her growing leaps and bounds the past few months, all because I decided to care again about her, and her feelings.
Now, it seems i can never get enough of her, and miss her terribly when I'm on the road! Before, it was no big deal when I left on a trip for a few days, because I just assumed she always be there, until this past summer she showed me that even she has a breaking point, and I had pushed her to it!
Well, this Valintine was a nervious one for me, because up till then, we still had not re-connected, and was struggling with our relationship, eventhough we both wanted to make it work badly! I tried to make it as perfect as I could for her that night! I choose making her dinner instead of dealing with crowds at crowded restraunts, My daughter, Chelsea, helped me decorate the dinning room, and Hotel room, to make it special, and everything seemed perfect!
But have to say, even with all the effort put in, the ice between us was still frozen solid! But something happened that night at the Hotel, something I can't really explain. All I know is we were struggling to connect, and while talking about it, something just snapped, and it was as if the Ice wall shattered all at once, and we was as close as we ever was!!! It was great! I thought I would never get that closeness with my wife again, but thanks to all the prayers, I feel God said enough was enough, and not melted the ice wall between us, but shattered it!!! Since then our relationship, I feel, has grown stronger, and the closeness is back!!! Thank you all for your prayers!! God is Good all the time!!!!!!!!

1 comments:

Teresa said...

Hey babe....I luv ya bunches. :)